Monday, November 30, 2009

It's A Wonderful (Imperfect) Lfe



If you're a woman who strives too hard to make it all right, then here's a book for you. It's a Wonderful (Imperfect) Life by Joan C. Webb, who has invited me to be a host for her blog tour. Joan is a 'recovering workaholic and perfectionist' (she is quick to admit) who now speaks nationally and internationally, encouraging women with her message of freedom and renewal.

Following is one of my favorite entries from this book of devotional readings:


Little by Little

The unfolding of your words gives light; it gives understanding to the simple.
Psalm 119:130

R-r-r-ling! R-r-r-ling! We lunged toward the phone. Grandma Joan (that’s me!) got there first.

“Your seventh grandchild, Calissa Jolie, is here!” exclaimed son-in-law, Adam. In the background I heard Calissa’s three sisters cheer.

Papa and I enjoy taking our three grandsons and four granddaughters on adventures and watching them learn about life, others, themselves, and God. Yet in our exuberance, we don’t force 1-week-old Calissa to stand alone, or 22-month-old Sam to recite the pastor’s Bible text or 9-year-old Annika to drive us to the store. We don’t expect 8-year-old Max to pitch for the Arizona Diamondbacks or kindergartner Luke to graduate from high school next year. Neither would we throw 4-year-old Lesia into a lake and yell, “Swim across, kid!” And even though 5-year-old Kirsten builds great Tinkertoy houses, we’d never insist she renovate our guest room. Obviously, these expectations would all be extremely unreasonable.

Likewise, our heavenly Father—who delights in watching us develop, too—doesn’t push us beyond our capabilities and understanding. He waits until we’re ready. If God told us everything about ourselves, the world and life all at once, we’d be overwhelmed and crushed. Instead, he encourages us based on our spiritual, mental and emotional age-level. God's gentle unfolding plan increases our insight and encourages our consistent growth.

Father, thanks for nurturing my development
little by little. Help me to be as patient as You are with
my imperfect attempts at maturity.

Make It Personal: List the ways you’ve grown during the last few months. Plan a simple celebration. What sounds fun to you?

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And to learn more about Joan visit her on the web: http://www.joancwebbblog.com

If you'd like to follow Joan's blog tour, catch the next installment at the following site: www.startingfromscratchbooks.com

7 Comments:

At 7:44 AM , Blogger Joan C. Webb said...

Good morning, Karen!
Thanks immensely for hosting the 17th stop on my Wonderful (Imperfect) Life BLOG TOUR. And thanks for posting the devo about how God doesn't push us to unrealistic expectations. I think we can both identify with the grand-mothering joys and excitement, huh? As you say so well, Aging isn't for Wimps! :-)

I remember the day we first met, at a CLASS seminar about about 6 years ago. It's such fun to have you share today. Thanks again.
Relief blessings to you,
Joan

 
At 7:16 AM , Blogger Kristi Holl said...

Hello to Joan and Karen, two of my favorite people! Love this book--have given it to many worn-out women I know. It was a life-saver to me and my sister both.

 
At 7:39 AM , Blogger Joan C. Webb said...

Good morning, Kristi!
Thanks for your encouraging words about It's a Wonderful (Imperfect) Life. :-) Music to an author's heart.
Thanks for sharing a part of it, Karen.

 
At 9:58 PM , Blogger James Lindquist said...

Reminds me that the grandkids call me Papa as well. I rely on that aspect of God, to grow at my pace. Thank you Jesus.

 
At 7:48 PM , Blogger n2deep said...

Love your analogy, Joan. It gives me perspective for when I'm impatient with myself and (wrongly) assuming that God is impatient with me, too.
Christine

 
At 7:50 PM , Blogger Rebecca A. Sweet said...

I loved reading this 'Little by Little" devotion...Thanks so much for posting it... I'll be looking for that book!

 
At 7:35 AM , Blogger Joan C. Webb said...

Hi Rebecca, Christine, and Warren,
Thanks for your inspiring comments and for taking the time to write. Hope you're experiencing the relief of God today.
Blessings,
Joan

 

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